No matter what anyone says, a relationship should be easy. Not to say that there should not be fights, bumps, lulls, ruts, or whatever you would like to call them, because there should be. I mean easy in the respect that things align. Successes should be doubled and failures should be halved. That kind of thing.
We spent some time walking around the family farm with Minnesota couple Mike and Naomi, looking at cows, shooting guns, and witnessing the ease that comes with the right fit.